"I know that usually when people talk about losing their virginity they only have one story to tell; I've never been accused of being normal so what can I say. In Losing My Virginity- part 2 I shared about my first two sexual experiences with my boyfriend. It was not a great experience but I felt that I learned a lot from it. The best thing I learned is that he was not worth my time and that I needed to move on so I broke up with him. I think both of us thought good riddance to our loveless relationship.
My life returned to normal until Nancy's... sweet sixteen..."
This is an excerpt from Losing My Virginity- part 3 found on the LL&L blog Freaky Friday. I want you to know why I share my very personal stories. When I can talk about my past I can forgive myself for any past mistakes and feel more confident in the present because I, "... feel like I have nothing to hide". The other reason I share is in the hope that it will help someone else: avoid my mistakes, forgive themselves or follow learn from my victories.
In my LMV series there are a total of 7 parts, at the end I will share a list of things that I believe is important for teens to know about sex. I want parents feel eager to talk to their kids about sex before their kids have to learn bad habits taught my the wrong people. In my own life I noticed that once the lines of communication were open with my mom I become empowered and made better choices for myself. So if this doesn't offended you please read LMV- 1-7 and let me know what you think, please.
If you are interested in submitting a post on this subject, or anything else please contact me and we will work out the details. I don't know how many people are feeling brave but I'd love you to share your own story: when did you lose your virginity, how was the experience, and what did you learn from it?